All you need is love & a lot of talks and work

All winter long there were a lot of discussions about how, what, who and where.Disagreements ? Oh yes! There were door slamming and silence. My brother has good and bad personality traits, one of his good ones are his believes in communications. He never give up. So after a lot of talk and babysitting we were ready to clearing house, barn and garden…

I don`t think the young couple in our family had any vision of how much work it really was to get ready for their wedding. Of course they can`t be blamed for our plan to use the barn for food serving before and after the wedding:)

Thankfully we have our own carpenter…

Great grandpa Ansgar secured the floor and he made tables and benches, but behind every successful man is a talented woman. Great grandma Karen made sure her man did the job right, she put food on the table and she looked after the little ones.

The groom? He looks tired. Already? Well…Perhaps he was most concerned that he would soon be dancing the bridal waltz?

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The planning of a wedding

One thing I know for sure – I will not wait four years before making the wedding album for the upcoming wedding:) My memory is just not that good. The one thing I do remember about the planning of my nephew Jan`s wedding is the discussions going on during the winter. The frustration we as a family felt about being kept in the dark about what the young couple were planning. Were they making plans at all? Did they have money? Where would the reception being held? What church? Of course we wanted to know it all and of course they wanted to do it all by themselves.

My brother, the father of the groom, came up with this master plan – we were to have a pre-wedding party in the barn and all the food before and after would be served there. Ha…it was such a crazy plan. We all knew that the barn was stuffed with old things and no one wanted to open the doors. It was a crazy plan.

But spring came along we can of adapted to the thought and we caved…

This would never have worked if not the groom`s grandfather hadn`t come to our rescue. He is a carpenter and with the help of his awesome wife he could pull this off. I wish I knew what Ansgar was thinking when he was presented with this challenge two weeks before the wedding:)

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Letters from home

I was young when I moved across the country from my childhood home. This was in 1981 and way before we knew everyone would have an iPhone in our pocket:) Calling was done from a pay-phone and it was always dark and freezing cold. Besides it was expensive. I loved writing letters and my mother did her best to write back but she was a talker not a writer. It was okay as long as there were something else added in the envelope - like money or chocolate. I have saved all those letters and one of these days I have to decide what to keep.

Working with my inspiration file for the Twelve Class at Big Picture Classes I found some cute cards and letters from my nephews. One letter written by one of the boys. Others written by the grown ups and signed by the boys. I love that I have saved those…

I can almost see my mother babysitting my nephew - something she did every day, scratching her head wondering what she could do to entertain the little bandit for a few moments. I can almost hear her saying: Come on – let`s write a letter to your aunt. She will be so happy to get a letter from you. I can certainly see the little boy with the innocent smile being all exited for a few moments before moving on with a scheming smile:)

What`s more funny is that the little boy`s mother is now doing the same thing with his children. Maybe this is why we have grandmothers?

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Move more + eat well } week 6

I move a little and I eat well but…

…it is 10 days since the scale changed numbers. Today I needed the comfort of the charts…

…and now I feel so much better. Ready to keep going.

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Scrapbooking – just for fun

We all have our own reason for scrapbooking. Documenting everyday life, family stories, photos. We scrapbook as a creative outlet. We scrapbook because we think we have to. I scrapbook for all those reasons – except the last one. I certainly don`t have to. Why? Because I don`t have kids and therefore I`m off the hock.

Since I am a scrapbooker I do feel obliged to do my best to document our family stories. I grew up in a family with storytellers. My grandfather was an excellent storyteller and so was my mother. No one inherited those genes. Me and my youngest nephew like to think we are good at it but we are not because we love all the details and never get to the point of the story:)

Being in the forums and classrooms are sometimes frustrating. So many speak up about how things should be done. I listen and now and then I get frustrated and confused. But really – I am 50 and I can do my thing anyway I want and so can you. Today`s page is just for fun…

With all the talk about moving into a new house with a new room she makes the first move – months before the actual move:)

The inspiration for this page is Ali Edwards. I have this digital file with her Journaling lines I planned to use in one of my theme albums. I never used them but I wanted to and did a search in Ali`s gallery for inspiration. I always leave her gallery with inspired to make something.

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… and the woman’s place was in the home

At least it was when I grew up. My mother had busy days. Husband, children and elderly parents. From my mother I learned a few good things although she never had any success in teaching me anything in the kitchen – I learned that being busy is a good thing and that in order to be happy I have to like being with me.

Busy or not - my mother was always passionate about a hobby – crocheting was one of them. I have no idea how many crochet blankets she produced but I am pretty sure everyone who counts in my family have one…

Every time she finished one she said: this is the last one…but in the autumn another blanket would be in work.

So in addition to a lot of model boats we also have a few crochet blankets…

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My father – a boat builder

In the early 80′s, my father was disabled and had to leave his work at the shipyard. This was not easy to handle. He was in bad shape and had no hobbies – except for smoking, doing his crossword magazine and entertaining visitors he had very little to do…

My mother and father had a different rhythm. He got up at three o’clock in the morning. She got up at nine in the morning. It meant that he had six hours to pass before she came and kept him company. It was a blessing for us all when he finally got an idea that he could build model boats.

We all had so much fun with this. I can still remember the excitement from this when I visited for Christmas and the first boat was ready on the slip…

The boat was called Tor Jan after his grandsons. The choice of name makes me think that he had no trust in living long enough to make another boat.

At easter in 1985 we took the boat for a test drive. After several test in the bathtub – something the little boy loved, it was time to take the plunge…

The weather was beautiful. We were full of nerves but it worked perfectly – until we lost control with the steering. There was no way we could bring it back to shore. There was a lot of running and screaming and in the end we had to use a boat to bring it home. I don`t think we ever did that again:)

There would be many boats. And it started with a walk in the woods to cut out the subject that would later turn into a boat. He bought nothing but made ​​it all himself. Many boats were made ​​on behalf of friends who wanted a copy of a boat they had previously owned. I do not think he asked for anything more than a bottle of wiskhy in payment…

In 1987 he received the ultimate challenge. A company in Ålesund which would build a new Catamaran at the local shipyard needed a model that they would use when looking for financing. This was a task he enjoyed. It was challenging and he was in contact with people who needed his knowledge…

 In addition to the excitement of building the boat came the joy of being invited to the christening of the boat. Champagne parties was not what my parents were most accustomed to. I long for this was the only mom was talking about when we talked on the phone. My father’s health was not so that they could travel to the baptism but they had at least the pleasure of the invitation…

This was an event that would interest the public and thus came up the newspapers – even in our home…

The boat my father is showing at the top of the page was his fun thing. It is called “Whisky” and yes it was filled with whisky. It had a tap and you could fill your glass with a drink. It is standing on a cabinet with a lock. My father kept the key in his pocket. What secret did he keep in there? Among other things – he hid the chocolate he received as gifts. Every morning he would unlock the cabinet and get one piece of chocolate and no way was he sharing with the rest of us.

The boat he loved the most was a copy of the boat he once owned himself back in the days when he was a fisherman…

This is my brother`s boat. He remember this boat – I don`t. You can see that my brother grew up in a time when the boat was a daily part of his life because all his work books from school is filled with drawings of this boat:) This model filled the prime space in our hallway and I had totally forgotten that until I found this photo.

This photo is from 1988 – one year before my father died and the boat is the last one he built. Today`s challenge is this – what do we do with all those boats? Because they are big. We really do not have the space to store them. This question is biting us in our ass. We can`t have them and we can`t give them up because we admire the man who made them and love him for it.

This is a part of my story I have wanted to document for a long time but I just could not get myself started. When setting up the inspirational files in Stacy Julian`s class Twelve at Big Picture Classes I added ”Boats” to my ”Things”-file. And as I worked through some old files looking for a photo to add in to my “People”file I came a cross a photo of the test drive we did back in 1985. I didn`t know we had this photo and this got me focusing on looking for more photos. For the last month I have added more photos as I found them.

I could have told this story in one page but I wanted to make sure all the photos and newspaper-clips were together and taken care of. It will be placed in my “All about us”-album where I keep stories like this. Stories that do not belong anywhere else but which affects us all as a family.

Exited to look for the next story:)

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